Some topics I cover are below: Podasts : Freedom From Pain.
Your feminine voice is needed now.
Rise and shine like the ball of the sun in the sky. Karma layers, levels and dimensions. Is it possible to be free from pain? Which tree are you, the love tree or the pain tree? Does evil exist? going against the grain of most spiritual people. I’m your greatest fan, I’m rooting for you, go slay some demons. Listen, do not keep yourself down anymore, it’s an order. Go now and shine, who cares about critics and loudmouths. You are sheer greatness, you are called into action now.
These are just a few of topics I cover. If you feel like connecting, make sure you listen, because your time is here!
How many times have you heard that your suffering is making you stronger, harder and is part of the divine plan? Probably every day, in most insta post?
What if I tell you that, that is not true. The plan has been hijacked by dark forces, they have corrupted our divine plan and will and made it their own. Most writings, wisdom, book is now under their control, unless you have removed all the programs and implants from yourself and are now free from the karmic wheel. I will talk about karma and its significance on the human existence at some point. Right now, I will talk about what is coming to me, from the divine creator himself/herself (there is no gender in the creator spirit), no polarity.
So, I want to free you from your pain and suffering, have you been conflicted all your life thinking whether to give the other cheek or fight the pedophiles, the rapist, the child molester, the demon spirit, who is totally distorted and twisted. Did you think that the divine made those spirits?
if so, were you taught that they were part of the divine plan and that there was no right, no wrong, that the ascended ones does not see duality, right or wrong, that everything on this earth is a school, teaching us something divine and how we are becoming strong and must thank that path that we have walked and thank the lessons and challenges for making us so strong?
well, you have been had, by probably the best of teachers on this earth. I have seen great teachers, ascended and enlightened and teaching this philosophy, that, there is no right, no wrong, that the worst of the worst is part of the divine plan.
How could that be? the divine would not even hurt anyone, how can a child be harmed and be called karma or there was something in that child that deserved it (in some teachings), making it right that the suffering was deserved.
I will talk about Karma soon, what it is, how it was designed to command and control and how we can remove karma. This is a dispensation for those who had no karma to begin with. I cannot teach it openly as I know these can be used to harm, hurt and manipulate others (by dark ones).
Divine people, your time has come, to stand up, break the shackles of controlling belief systems, enslaving rules and wisdom, that has been at times unwittingly passed on by well meaning teachers.
Divine will not harm you, does not have lessons after lessons after lessons to “teach” you, for your “own good”, this is from the dark, evil ones. If your life is bad right now, this has nothing to do with learning lessons, I must admit, I bought into the karma wheel, karmic burden shite too, I also believed that my pain was part of my divine life purpose, but that is what everyone is taught. This is a plug, an implant, a program.
Divine is here to teach us love, beauty, peace and harmony. This earth was taken over by evil forces a long time ago, now we fight back to take it back. With truth, force and divine power. It cannot be done any other way.
Those who have a pure heart will rise now. Those who have harmed others, been greedy, controlling, enslaving of others, will have to fall. Have faith, your time is here.
Karma is the law of the earth. Everyone has a bank balance, whether in the negative or positive. But everyone has Karma, it’s the law. When we are born on this earth, we have Karma.
So, what it Karma? Karma means actions and could also be any omission on our part to act. So, an omission of action, also accrues bad Karma.
Good Karma is good action and intentions. Bad Karma is bad actions and intentions. These also include omission of action. For example, if there was injustice, we take the side of the injustice, we act and intend to harm others, or we do not act, that gets added to our negative Karmic bank. So, coming with clean hands always is key to having a positive karmic bank account.
Leave others to do what they do, do good acts, intend good things, stand up for justice and righteousness, defend the vulnerable and the weak, be on the side of justice. Do what you have to do to get justice, in the name of righteousness, stand up and be counted, voice out injustices, stand up for the weak, poor and vulnerable, give voice to those who have none. Speak up, speak out against those who abuse their powers and keep others bound in pain and suffering.
Earth has a way of making people pay their debt, it never goes away, we pay the debt of even our ancestors, so, our karmic bank account also has our ancestors’ karma included. So, to clear all bad debts in our account, we must also do good for our ancestors. We aren’t an island, we are social and collective beings, we are connected by our Karma.
A Karmic family come together through the bond of their karma. Family come together through their karma and karmic balance, so, perpetrators tend to come to family of perpetrators, souls in a family tend to have same Karma. So, a family of victims would come together as the ancestors would have been victims as well.
A family of abusers, would have a lot of abusers born in the same family as soul family, their karma is to work on clearing the family debt of from abuse and violation of others. Collectively the ancestors and family have the same energetic imprint and Karma.
Our ancestors have a lot in common with us, most of the time, we are all living the same life, the same pain, the same suffering and same cycle again and again and again, until someone in the family breaks the chain.
Each ancestor has an exact imprint of energy as us, we share a lot with our ancestor, so, if someone was victimised in our ancestral lineage, the group in the family would have some kind of victimised history as well. But, we are all victims one would say, yes, it’s true. The perpetrators/abusers are also victims, the abused are also victims. So, there are only victims on this earth. Yes, this is true, until Karma is cleared.
When we clear Karma, we say we do not want to be a victim anymore, the abused or abuser who are both victims – come out of the cycle of abuse. One makes the jump out of the circle, does everything to have justice and prosecute those who have wronged us.
The justice is in a spiritual court, some go to actual court, but it’s a matter of justice must be done. The abuser is taken to a spiritual or legal court and a case is lodged against them. The divine or legal court finds in favour of the abused. Then, the debt is cleared in the name of the abused/victim and awards are made to the aggrieved just like in any court.
Karma is a system of justice, it’s a spiritual system of balancing the scales, the gavel comes down as all memories are stored in the akasha (ethers), there is no escaping the karmic laws of equity and justice.
Karma does not mean bad karma only,where one suffers and suffers, bad karma can also be suffered by good souls, who have done nothing wrong, for example – a good soul suffers injustices all their life, suffers abuse, harassment, violation and tresspasses. Why? why do good souls have to suffer? that’s because they have been done wrong and the wrong carries on if the victim does not stand up for themselves and make it right for themselves and the whole ancestral lineage suffers together.
Once a wrong has been righted, a soul’s bad Karma is cleared. Then, good Karma pays off. Some may be angry that there is bad karma for good people. Yes, that’s the case, but remember, the bad karma is not yours, it’s transferred, switched, pushed on to you, once you realise that others will push their bad debts onto you, then you can be careful as to whose debt you’re paying.
Pay your own debt, not others’. However, the good thing about Karma is that its memory is good, when a debt is pushed onto you, it remembers, at some point, you will be able to return the debt back to its source, take back your good name and clear your Karma.
You probably do not have much bad karma ( if you have been victimised) a lot of bad karma comes from you not being able to act because you have been fearful to speak up, speak out or stand up for yourself and others. Once you do, the karma clears itself.
So the suffering and pain has to do with you not doing what you needed to do to help yourself and your ancestors, the perpetrators love a weak person, so they can dump all their horror and evil on them. So, as soon as you say no, no more and stand up to them, your karma clears very fast as you do not have bad karma when you come with clean hands and stand up for justice and righteousness.
A great time is here to clear karma for the souls who love justice and clean hands, it’s time for pure hearts and angels to clear karma. Also,watch justice being made in your favour, public shame, humiliation, curse are all cleared now. All karma are cleared, returned to rightful owner. It’s time to clear your name and take back your identity.
Karma is cleared and justice is done in your favour when you have a pure heart. Enjoy the rewards!
The Long Walk To Freedom.
It’s been a while hasn’t it? the walk has been long, it has seemed endless, all of us are walking this path to total freedom of the soul.
Depending on the amount of work we do we get to our destination through detours and many deaths, but eventually, when we do not give up, the victory comes.
The victory of total freedom of the soul. The full circle has been achieved. Let me tell you one thing, it’s not a secret at all – the past, present and the future are all happening at once. Time is not linear, it’s all happening in the now as well as the past and future.
So, we are creating, recreating what happened in the past, in a different way, same lessons, but in an illusory way. All the issues of the past, are taking place now, also in the past thereby impacting the future.
Problems with others, happened in the past, especially the ones that do not go away, there is karma (actions and heavy debt) to be paid back. It’s not always necessarily you have to pay the debt, perhaps you are, but also perhaps you’re here to collect what’s owed to you.
If others have victimised you, for no good reason – for some selfish inequitable personal or collective gain or were on the wrong side of history, worked for those who did a lot of wrong, abused their powers, then, you will collect your debt. Because life wants to make it right to you, justice wants to be served, your karma is not full of bad actions, but that of others’ bad actions, that negatively affected and impacted your life.
If on the other hand, you were the perpetrator, then the debt must be paid in full. We must always come with clean hands, act right, act with the highest integrity, justice is always done, if not now, it will be done at a later stage, but fear not, you must pursue the quest for justice, to obtain it. I.e – take back your powers from those who took it by force and had no right to do so.
Those who have done you wrong, must come back in front of the equitable court, where one must always come with clean hands and there will be judgement made in your favour. Keep on walking on the righteous path, a lot of abusers/perpetrators/takers are being made accountable now. Confront injustices, evil acts and intentions.
So, if you have been waiting for justice for a long time, then this is the time to collect rewards, karma is cleared, debt is paid off, debtors pay you back, justice is done. It’s this time when goodness pays off, keep on filling your karmic bank with good positive actions, because it’s about to pay off with infinite interests.
Enjoy your path of goodness and equity. Always come with clean hands.
Having been in the legal field for a while and having seen a lot of people struggle with how to professionally or if not professionally, how to generally deal with bullying, harassment and or abuse. I want to offer some help in this area.
Standing UP for yourself
Standing up is hard as it can be a lonely place to be, you feel alone and it can be fearful. To make matters more complex, you are aware that confrontational people do not like to be confronted back. They like their victims docile, quiet and submissive. BUT, that’s not you! they may have got the impression that you were docile and submissive! which is far from reality.
So, if you fear backlash, there is no need, you’re safe and will be fine if you follow this model.
Stand up for what you truly believe in. Being assertive does not mean you need to shout back, hurl abuse or intimidate others physically, you can do the same in writing! pen is a mighty sword, I tell you that! When others hurl abuse or undermine your authority (sovereignty), then clashes and disputes occur.
Disputes aren’t a bad thing in itself, it’s how you approach and deal with it that counts. So, if others hurl abuse, intimidate and undermine you, you must respond to their criticisms. However, it’s in the way you respond that will make all the difference, if you respond assertively in a calm, gentle manner including your rights, laws, legislation, and policies – you win!
Well, this is if the situations permit you, if someone is threatening bodily harm, this approach may not be appropriate of course, but in most non-threatening confrontations, it is the assertive but firm one that wins. Making the point calmly when someone is in a physically confrontational place is not ideal when you’re trying to be calm, even though the other may be hurling insult! it can be tough. So, remember this, the insults are not being hurled at you or about you.
STEP ONE – Remain Calm. If it’s physical confrontation, move away from the situation and then later think of how to teach responsibility to the perpetrator.
The insult being hurled is about the person (not about you) if you’ve done nothing wrong.
The insult is about themselves, what they say is what they feel about themselves
Reply calmly (if possible)
If you can’t think of what to say – try this – “do not talk to me in this manner or you’re crossing the line, you’re bullying, harassing or abusing me”. Or please stop right here, you have no right to speak to me in this manner” and then walk away.
Step 3 –
- Take some space, think about what to do next, BUT you MUST ACT!
Do not make excuses for the person i.e they weren’t feeling well, they are usually good to me, it’s a one off, i’ll let it go, if it happens again, I will take action”
- Do not have defeating self talks
- It’s NOT your fault to deserve this
- Do not be scared
Step 4 –
- Write the event down or write to your superior straight away, telling them what had happened.
It is your chance to stand out, make an impact and be respected – so do it with facts, not emotional rants, but hard facts, how you felt, how you perceived the situation, how you were made to feel.
Your chance to voice your opinion, your judgement about your perception of what happened.
Your opportunity to stand up for yourself
Your chance to make changes, in a positive way
- It’s a teaching moment – for others to also take note
- You did not do anything wrong
Try not to blame anyone outside of the confrontation ( people involved) if it’s not their fault
For your rights to be respected
To be transparent
To be assertive and lead in this matter
Try to be professional – if in a professional environment.
They are probably professional abusers, liars, manipulators, perpetrators, controllers
They love and want to maintain control over others
- They are authoritative and do not like to be questioned
- When they say, “the team does it this way, this that and the other” it means they want it this way, not the team!
They want you to submit and not question their authority or decisions.
So – Further Steps to take:
Tell them you don’t appreciate the abuse
Write about the allegations/abuse that took place – Make all your valid points in your response. Writing it down may be the best thing to do. Include policies, legislation and guidelines if you can, all workplaces have policies and obligation to legislation
Ask for help if you need to, from a colleague or someone who can help or follow this guidance – in general
Give evidence of what happened (if there was someone present include their names)
Go to your boss and make a complaint about what happened.
Follow internal policies, look for grievance procedures and other such procedures and include them in your writing
If it’s a private individual, well, keep safe and keep a distance if you feel it’s going to be physical, but if not, then stay calm, speak when you’re calm and make your point back.
Some breaches that may have taken place: Use these terms
Singling- out (victimisation)
Discrimination of all kinds – Sexism, ageism, racism, based on faith, religion, disability, sexual orientation etc
Subtly putting you down
- Physical abuse
- Making you feel small, diminishing you to make themselves feel great
- Telling you, this is not how it’s done, everyone is different and creative in their own way – putting you down for it
Financial abuse – are all against internal policies and there are laws against it too
Questioning your professional judgement (do they have powers to do that? are they also making professional judgements? Are they your boss? Do they have the right?)
Smearing your character/reputation ( Slander/defamation) in emails, such as copying others in communications that has nothing to do with the dispute in an effort to slander, defame or smear you ( this is also breach of technological communications policies and legislations)
Ask for relevant policies that they are following, what made them single you out, point to you etc … ask them to provide this policy.
Ask them to provide evidence what policy are they following?
Ask for evidence of their claims or abuse claimed
Make clear points
Ask them to cease and desist if necessary – use these words ” I am asking you to cease and desist, because you’re breaching my employment rights at work, many other policies and legislation – which are unlawful acts in law.
Ask your superiors to get involved
If it carries on, take it further
Follow internal grievance procedures
or get mediation (if it will help)
Whatever you do, do not keep quiet, do something as this will teach bullies to be quiet and beware of how they speak to you and others. There are many, many laws that protect you, a lot of people are scared of speaking up – if only we all spoke up!
Justice will be done, remain transparent and you cannot lose. This is a general guide and there could be other steps as well, but mainly these are what will work with bullies.
Justice has been done in your favour – Already! just get the ball rolling.
To your success and may your boundaries always be protected.
It’s time to purge the rest of it, it’s been a while we have been struggling with letting go totally.
Say your final goodbyes as it’s time to lay to rest the old and worn out, the pain-filled past – see it dissolve in a healing fire of transformation.
A lot of us have been stuck in the past, we have been struggling to get out, as there has been strong attachments to people, stories, events, emotions and memories. We have been holding on tight to these as this is all we know.
Letting go of everything we know to embrace everything we don’t know, (that’s ahead of us) can be quite scary. We live life controlled by our subconscious minds, by our past, by our childhood experiences, by our inner child’s feelings and emotions, by triggers that made us feel unsafe when we were very little. It’s usually our PAST that controls us, if we manage to heal and release the past, we can no more be controlled.
The past is filled with memories, it is this that binds us to the timeline. If we can remove the fire from the memories, be able to detach and see them as stories and nothing more than stories, then we can live in the present fully, without allowing the past and the “people of the past” to keep dragging us back there.
When we give too much power to the memories, the people who have created those memories to entrap us, to keep us there with them forever, then we stay there all our life. Pain and suffering live mostly in the past, it follows us in the present, as time is not linear, time is happening all at once, past is present is future. So, the taker friend, the abuser partner/husband/relation, or the enslaver boss, the narcissist family member still has a lot of power over us, what we really call the past, is happening in a different timelines – all at once.
Life can be very confusing, because events tend to happen all at once, confusion occur in life, because as we are inter-dimensional beings, we are living in many parallel timelines at the same time. We may switch from one to another, to another, to another. Timelines are always open, so if something triggers us we go back to our childhood timeline, where the trauma occurred and we stay there as long as we need to, sometimes we get stuck in timelines.
So, when the enslaver boss makes us feel bad, we shift to a timeline that we were enslaved in the past. When the abuser partner/husband talks condescendingly to us, we go back to the time when we lost our voice, our powers, possibly in a timeline where we were persecuted and killed (past life), or it could be we’re reliving the pain and traumas of our ancestors, energy gets passed on, if no one clears the traumatic emotional burdens, then it gets carried on as debt to all who comes in the bloodline.
A lot is happening all the time with us. We may get stuck for a very long time in a timeline. Because, the traumas are too big and we need a lot of time to process the wisdom, learn the lessons and heal the mind, body, heart, emotions and soul.
Think about your own triggers. What are they? is there someone in your life that you cannot stand, no matter if they are far or close by? think about past life karma with this entity. If a lesson persists with someone, it’s from the past and if it doesn’t go away, it means a few lifetimes were spent in pain and suffering with this entity.
So, the past holds all the answers, the horrible person you cannot seem to get rid of, the takers, abusers, those filled pain and suffering, you will find all the wisdom, all the answers in the past. The past has a way to control us, it will have people in in that will not allow you to move on as they want to hold you back there with them.
When you have mastered to master time, timelines, the past, the future as one timeline, then you will have mastered life and its secrets. Life is magical. Life is magic, for those who are awake to see.
To heal the past find blogs in my archives that may help.
Wish you a magical life!
Ah the mind! what a minefield! How many people have control over their mind contents? thoughts? actions? the mind is a powerful powerhouse, an infinite hard drive, filled with super powers, as well a chaos and confusion.
If we come to believe everything the mind tells us, we have given it too much power. When we change the way we see things and the world changes, its people changes. Taming the mind is a powerful endeavour, that can be done after some practice.
The mind is a great saboteur, it sabotages us regularly, making us think things that are crazy, if we believe those crazy constructions of the mind, then it’s controlling us. Become in control of this saboteur, take control of the mind, the mind will make us think all kinds of things, to keep us controlled.
These could have been implanted inside us, or it could be complete fabrication. When we become in control of the mind, it cannot control us anymore, it cannot sabotage us anymore.
Telling the mind that it’s not in control anymore, that it cannot project lies onto us for us to believe, it then becomes tamed, a wild beast becomes totally tamed and under control. An undisciplined mind brings chaos and disorder. Controlling our thoughts, programming the mind with new programs, that we have installed into our system, is the best thing we can do.
If other programs, we haven’t agreed to, were installed, then of course our programs run the way it was programmed, by whomever it was programmed. But, when we take full control of our mind, delete horrific programs, viruses, implants, then it will respond to our own programs.
Self sabotage is when the mind does what it wants, without it being controlled by the person’s will. These programs run chaotic programs, it may have been running with errors, in our ancestors, we accepted it as it was passed on, but if we remove old defective programs and download new ones, healthy, updated, upgraded, we install anti viruses, firewalls, VPNs so only those whom we want to connect with, can connect with us.
We become in control of the mind, it cannot control us anymore. If others have downloaded programs in your hard drive, you agreed or did not object, then it was installed -removing those old programs is a must. Destructive programs running alongside the new programs, cause crashes, freezes and disorder.
Remember to reboot, scan the system often for worms, trojans, viruses or evil programs. These of course are people whom you do not want in your life, who have been somehow implanted – remove them by upgrading your system. Unwanted horror must be removed.
Clean your system, reboot or change the hard drive if you need to, to get rid of unwanted beasts, if necessary.
All the child wants is love, love and more love. Is this kind of love attainable on this earth? from earthly mothers? in this day and age, it seems humans do not know how to love. Love is equated with possession, abuse, control and all kinds of possessiveness that is being justified as love by everyone involved in these relationships.
A mother who controls her child to the extent of not allowing the child to be herself, himself, may justify it as love and discipline.
Our earthly values taught us that jealousy in a relationship means love and part of romance. That someone who loves us should be jealous and possessive.
These values also taught us that possessiveness means love – the more someone loves us, the more possessive they can become and it’s acceptable for a man or woman to be possessive, own their prize of “love”. Love has been misnamed, love doesn’t hurt, love heals, frees the spirit, allows total freedom to the spirit, love does not possess, but fear does.
When we are a child, we look to our parents for our own model to mould our own life. If our parents were not very balanced, then we become unbalanced too. When in the womb, how did our mother feel? were they happy of our arrival? of our existence? of us adding to their beautiful world or adding to their misery?
When we were in the womb, what seed was planted? seed of love or fear? this will reflect our life onwards. If our life is good, we attract good men/women/partners/friendships, then they have done a good job of loving us, honouring us, teaching us strong boundaries, setting us free to learn, make mistakes, choose our own life and how to live it. If not, the likelihood is that, we continue to make bad choices which take us back to destruction/fear/pain and suffering.
The good news is, whatever our life is right now, know that from now, this point on – we can make the change, if we are devoted to our own cause – self love, self honour, self worth, self mastery. This can change everything, honouring the self gives us everything we need, once we start to honour the self, we can go back to the past and heal it.
Once we start to honour the self, we will see that the past holds all of the secrets, a lot of it when we were not even aware of ourselves, i.e, when we were in the womb, or age between 0-7 years, that’s when the foundation were set for us. If we had a bad childhood, bad start, we can change it for us in the present. Heal the childhood, give ourself space to feel the grief, the pain or failure of our parents/family members, know that they had a lot of traumas too, which goes back generations to ancestors of the past.
The traumas and pain we feel is not something we feel alone. All of our ancestors feel the same, the energy gets passed from generation to generation in our DNA and bloodline, nothing ever goes away, until it is acknowledged and healed. In acknowledging our pain, we must also acknowledge the pain of our ancestors. Constellation healing, family placement healing is a good way of giving ancestors a platform to heal and be heard.
Acknowledging ancestors pain is a powerful way of healing our pain and suffering, the greater our pain, the more destructive our life, the more pain that is stored in the ancestors’ DNA, subconscious minds, which must be healed. It can be complex to deal with family/ancestors’ healing, as when you begin, the thread keeps on unravelling which can seem infinite in nature, as ancestral lineage can go back to millenia and if we take each person has their mother and father and grandparents, great-grandparents and so on, their pain and suffering, can go on for what seems to be forever.
But, if we want to deal with our own healing, we have to deal with the pain and suffering of the ancestors, we are linked, the tree of life, has roots, the trunk, branches and fruits. Which means we are part of a tree, if parts of the tree is sick, then we can’t be well. The tree as a whole needs to be looked at for us to be healed as part of the tree. If there is cancer in a part of the tree, it will catch up to the rest at some point.
In every generation there is a healer, but it depends if the healer can respond to the challenge and do the job, if the job is not done in that lifetime, then the task goes to the next generation, to the next healer, who again, if they do not rise to the healing challenge, then the task gets passed on and on and on and the healing demands more energy and becomes a bigger task.
Everyone must take responsibility of healing and dealing with their own pain and suffering. If they don’t then the healer becomes the one who bears the burden of the whole ancestral lineage, this can become and impossible task to achieve for one person. it is better to have more than one healer in a lineage of ancestors. This way the work is shared and the family heals fast. When we acknowledge the ancestors suffering, we give it space to heal, feeling the feelings of our ancestors, releasing them from their binds, karma is liberating to the souls of the past, present and future.
The inner child heals completely when it feels safe, protected, loved and honoured. This can only come when the adult loves their inner child, that is the biggest love and healing that will ever take place for the child. Self love is the greatest love and when the child accepts divine healing from the source, in the knowledge that humans are not perfect, divine is whole and only divine spirit can heal the child to wholeness and be the mother, father that the child has always needed, wanted and craved for.
When the child understand its own journey in this humanly existence, it heals completely. The inner child goes through a lot of trauma in its existence, in the womb, outside of the womb, growing up in an alien world, feeling different, unloved, lost, separation with itself, with others and then coming back to itself.
The finding the self part is very exciting, most of our life we think we are our parents, our friends, others on telly, we take parts of others and mimic to make believe we are who we aren’t. Then, when we become empowered, we remove all those fake layers and reveal ourself to ourself first and then the world.
We aren’t our mother, our father, brother, sister, friend/s, people on telly, we are totally unique, one of a kind, someone that is limitless, we exist at the same time we don’t exist, we are love, the sum of all that’s happened, the lessons, our ancestors, the sky, the elements, the earth, the water, fire, wood, trees, birds, butterflies, flowers, the star, planets, our art, we are and we aren’t all of these at the same time. No one can define who we are, as we are limitless beings of unlimited powers.
healing the inner child takes a long time, commitment and love to free ourselves from pain and suffering, this is total enlightenment and can be achieved on this plane. We can be free of pain and suffering, we can heal all of our pain and emotional suffering, our body, mind and spirit – minus the lessons of karma we have elected to learn in this lifetime.
Clearing karma is a must to reach freedom from pain and suffering. Total freedom of the soul is achievable, through hard work, patience and a lot of clearing work. The healing begins when the soul says, I want to be free, the healing begins and the soul becomes free in its own time.
If we give too much importance to others and how they treat us, how we are a victim of circumstances, a victim of others, then we will always be a victim of others.
What will it take for us to take our own life into our own hands? our happiness into our own hands? What will take to take back ALL our powers? to realise that we have always been enough, that others do not need to validate us, our happiness now – do not lie in others’ hands, actions or inactions.
If you have felt neglected, abandoned at some point in your life, you were being reminded that YOU have neglected and abandoned your own self. There is no greater thing than self love, it is complete love, when you feel the self love, you will feel the immense power you have, then it will not matter if you didn’t have a good life so far, if it was filled with pain and suffering, if your childhood was a really bad one, if you didn’t feel loved, or were abused by someone whom you trusted, if you weren’t protected by your parents, if your life was upside down.
What matters is that when we love ourself to the point of saying, ” I will not tolerate anyone, anything that abuses me, disrespects me, who does not honour me as much as I do, I will remove anyone from my life, if I don’t feel the level of honour and respect I have for myself” – and then follow up, give yourself that honour, that love, that respect that you have always wanted, waited for, once you have that for yourself, your energy will change and you will become ruthless in the way that you allow people to deal with you.
Once we begin to honour ourself, the world changes, the world aligns to bring more of the same vibration that we have been aligning with, all one-sided relations fall away, takers are dissolved, evil monsters cannot connect with us anymore, we become so elevated, that our energy repels those who do not align with us, friendships break, karmic relationships fall away, karma is cleared, pain and suffering dissolve, we see the truth about everything, we become very good at gaging situations and people.
It is important that we heal our wounds of the past and in childhood, so we have a good life. Healing our past will bring up a lot of traumas, related to our childhood, our upbringing, particularly when we were in the womb and when we were between the ages of 0-7 years of age. These remain in our subconscious all our lives, it is these experiences that mould our adulthood and our experiences. We keep on reliving our childhood experiences all our life.
If our childhood was filled with trauma and dysfunction, then our adult life mirrors that, that’s why people who have an abusive childhood have an abusive adulthood. We relive our childhood experiences over and over and over again, until we reveal to ourself that we need to get our of this cycle and take responsibility for our actions in the present.
It’s not our fault what happened in the past, particularly when we were children, but when we are adult, we must take responsibility for our life, our happiness and all of our decisions, staying stuck in the past, blaming others for our failure is not taking responsibility for our own life.
Taking responsibility means taking our powers back, stop blaming the past (and people in it) for our failures, heal ourselves and move on from a painful past to a beautiful present, a lot of work is needed for this, but it is possible to have a beautiful life filled with love once we take responsibility of our own life, wellbeing and happiness.
There are many ways to heal the self, to reach the point of self love, forgiveness, unconditional love and compassion for those who have harmed us. By seeing them as beings who had too much pain, who did not know how to live life, how to make their own life better, how to love others, their way of showing love was to control, enslave, possess what they felt was theirs, they did not know freedom, but have always been caged, how to take responsibility for their own happiness and wellbeing, by having strong boundaries, by saying no, by standing up for themself and by honouring themself.
Those who control and enslave others into relationships of enslavement are not happy for themself, being themself, they will pass on their pain and suffering to others through abuse, psychological, spiritual, emotional, physical, psychic/mental abuse and control. That’s all they know and are used to. They have been doing this forever and they are not able to change. These people lose a lot because they do have a lot of loving people in their lives, but because of their enslavement of those around them, they end up alone and rejected.
No one wants those who control, enslave, abuse others, so – they tend to end up totally alone and their cycle of abuse, resentment, hatred continue for those beings. They don’t want to break the cycle and habits they have become so accustomed to. After all, owning other people’s powers is such a boost of power for the self isn’t it? they don’t want to do the hard work of looking at their own source of pain and suffering, to unveil the truth about their ways and start the healing, so, we have to move on, without them, to make sure that we are healthy, happy, heal in a safe place without those who control, manipulate, harm and abuse.
Once we reach that level of self love, we have taken responsibility of our own happiness.
May those who are lost find their way.