No one will bring you peace and joy, it’s your job to do that for yourself. Do everything in your power to bring yourself peace, love and joy!
Once you deal with all the factors that has been paining you, the people, the things, the pain, the stories, the past, present and future. Peace will come.
There is also a need to deal with traumas, passed on traumas, inherited traumas, personal traumas, past life traumas, all of it needs to be seen and heard.
Peace can only come from looking at ourselves, seeing ourselves, hearing ourselves and being there for ourselves. The inner work must be done!
It’s a full time job, it’s something that cannot be escaped if we want peace, love, joy and harmony in life.
How many of us are able to deal with our emotions in a positive manner? not being scared of them, process them and let them go in a timely manner?
Ahh emotions! they can rule us, if allowed. They can have a life of their own, a life of autonomy and freedom that they exert over us. Emotions, when not under our control, can have devastating impact on our lives. They can become out of control, they can become destructive and have a lot of power over us.
That’s why we need to become conscious of them, become in control of them. Check out the video for more.
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If life has been a long struggle for you, not understanding this world, the culture, politics, religions, faiths and belief systems of this world have been a problem, then you are like me.
Systems have been corrupt and destructive, it has been a long journey to first innerstand the ways of this world, dirty politics, no good intentions, not much goodness, where good seems to suffer and horrible things and people thrive.
If you’re like me, a sensitive soul, trying to innerstand this world and also to live in its violent systems, then, it would have taken you a long time. It’s taken me all my life.
I have met some shady characters, passing as good. All they want is to fleece you of your goodness, they look good and if you’re trusting like I am, then you have been fleeced probably all your life. But, it’s ok, we now know what this world is made of. Lots of bad people, trying to take advantage, take, own, possess, violate, persecute, victimise others. They want to make a fast buck, own, possess others’ energy! Beware!!!
Then, there are the good people, who are honest, kind, givers, healers, selfless beings, healing, rebuilding, creating, speaking good words, acting with the highest integrity, high moral compass, who never sold their souls to the corrupt people and systems.
We are the warriors, the misfits, the rebels, the one who are always fighting for justice, humanity, righteousness, goodness. We are changing the world with our force, we are the powers of the past, present and future. We are here to make waves, to change the system from within, we are here to stay.
We failed big, we died many times, our souls drowned many times, we dissociated with these systems all our lives, we have been depressed, stressed, sick and dis-eased, because everything around us has been rotten, it was tough to trust, as we are such trusting beings, we trusted the wrong people, we trusted evil kinds. We fell hard.
As light warriors, we have been here for a long time, we have lost for that long, but not anymore, we have risen and we are here to remain risen. Evil masters came in many disguises to defeat us, they came as friends, masked themselves as perhaps lovers, benefactors, friends, colleagues, bosses, mentors, politicians, gurus, spiritual guides, teachers, students or someone close to us.
We’re the light ones, we may not have known everyone’s intentions right from the start, but now we do, we have unveiled everyone, we know everyone’s intentions, we innerstand relationships, people, humans, race, religion, politics, politicians, educational systems, financial systems, gurus, we innerstand what’s good, what’s not. We have been unmasking everyone.
We have kept what’s good for us and released what’s not good for us, we are here to stay, no one can defeat us, we have met evil in person and we have defeated them, they have no power over us and we have mastered their systems.
It’s now time to rise and many breakthroughs are here now. It’s our time, know that not everything and everyone has good intentions, protect yourself, your work, your abundance, fruits of your labour, trust but with discernment, not everyone is your friend, not everyone is trustworthy.
Have faith, right now all is well and will be so. You have surpassed the tough times and you have reached the other side, the safe passage is here, from now on, your life is going to be a masterpiece.
Take good care friend of light. Keep your legacy of light, keep doing what you’re doing, keep fighting the good fight, with high morals, integrity, never sell your soul stay true to you and what’s right, this is your time. You have arrived and the universe is cheering you on.
Your wings’ flutter has reached the deepest recess of this universe and all the divine is cheering you on! YAYYY! we have waited for your success, for a looooong time. Sigh with relief now. It’s YOUR TIME!
Mindfulness is becoming mainstream currently and there are very good reasons for it. I have been teaching Mindfulness for a little while now and it has become very clear that it is super POWERFUL.
In a short amount of time, it has become clear that mindfulness courses are powerful, these are designed to deal with psychology, meeting east with west, it’s a powerful new way to bring east to the west. Mindfulness has its roots in Buddhism, buddhist practices centre around being mindful of everything, there are lot of meditations, breathing techniques, being mindful of our thoughts, emotions and so many other techniques that when we put these into practice, it is clear that over a short period of time, our life can change.
On a very deep level, Mindfulness can change the way we think, feel and behave to outside stimuli. People will always come into our lives, they will always do and day what they want to do and say. A lot of things are not within our control.
However, when we realise that what WE do, say, feel, act upon are within our own control and no one else’s, then we become empowered. We become empowered when we have our mind under our control. The mind is designed in a certain way, that from the time we are born, if it has not been programmed ( which it never is), it can be chaotic and make us its slave. We are the slave of our mind, we do what it tells us to do, what it wants to do, when it wants to do, we are not in control of it. Until, we become mindful that is.
Mindfulness courses are so powerful, that it is changing how people think, feel, behave and as a result how they act towards others. When we are able to bring under control our mind, we are able to control a lot of elements in our lives. For example, when we are in control of our emotions, we can use it to propel us into the world of order. Emotions can be used in a positive way, it can be used as energy to create what’s to come. We can use the strong emotional energy to do great things in life, that’s when we know how to be in control of our emotions.
To be in control of our emotions, we have to be aware of them, to be aware of them, we have to observe them, to observe them, we have to be powerful enough to detach from them. When we say ” I feel sad”, we have connected to the feeling, the brain sends messages to the mind to act, the body works to release all the hormones and substances to honour this command from the self. So, when we say something like ” I feel sad”, we are giving commands to the brain to act, the nervous system gets into action, sending messages to the body to act swiftly, in releasing all kinds of chemicals in our body to honour this wish of ” I feel sad”.
If we turn this on its head, we detach from the feelings, we still have it inside of us, but we do not attch to it, we may say something like: “I notice there is a feeling of sadness inside of me” or ” this is sadness”, then we disconnect to the feelings, the brain does not act, it did not get the signal to act and it does not. So, then after a little while the sadness, dissipates. Naming our emotions is a good way to take inventory of our feelings, we become in charge of the feelings, we become aware of it, we take charge of our feelings fully, we take full responsibility.
With time, what happens is that we won’t have those strong feelings anymore. If we do, it will dissolve fast, leaving us a lot of energy to do all the great things we need to do, to live a mindful life. When we become aware of each of our emotion, we taking an inventory of our feelings, this in turn makes us aware of how we feel all the time, we become empowered to change ourselves.
So, next time you feel overwhelmed by your feelings, try labelling them as someone who is observing them, like someone from outside looking in. Like you see someone else feeling those feelings, what this does, it helps us feel those feelings, not repress them, own them, but also being very in charge of them.
Try this instead, when feeling anything – name them as an observer:
For example – try this – “This is pain, this is anger, this is resentment, this is shame, rage, guilt, frustration, unforgiveness, hatred etc …”
Name them as an observer, never owning these feelings, notice them, feel them, they will soon dissolve. This makes us aware of what is lurking inside of us, without repressing, oppressing those feelings, owning them, giving them due time, seeing them, respecting them, not judging those feelings but at the same time, removing the extreme charge out of it. By depersonalising our feelings, we are able to be in control of them, they do not become destructive, they heal faster.
It is when we repress feelings/emotions that all chaos takes place within us. Not when we are mindful of them.
This behaviour of being in charge of our emotions, over a long period of time helps to gain control over our feelings fully, entirely and completely. We become master of our lives, we become super powerful, we become a master of the self.
Go on, start naming your feelings as someone observing yourself – name every one of them, see how you become in charge and in control of them. Your life will become so peaceful, when you become in charge of your feelings and emotions.
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It’s time to purge the rest of it, it’s been a while we have been struggling with letting go totally.
Say your final goodbyes as it’s time to lay to rest the old and worn out, the pain-filled past – see it dissolve in a healing fire of transformation.
A lot of us have been stuck in the past, we have been struggling to get out, as there has been strong attachments to people, stories, events, emotions and memories. We have been holding on tight to these as this is all we know.
Letting go of everything we know to embrace everything we don’t know, (that’s ahead of us) can be quite scary. We live life controlled by our subconscious minds, by our past, by our childhood experiences, by our inner child’s feelings and emotions, by triggers that made us feel unsafe when we were very little. It’s usually our PAST that controls us, if we manage to heal and release the past, we can no more be controlled.
The past is filled with memories, it is this that binds us to the timeline. If we can remove the fire from the memories, be able to detach and see them as stories and nothing more than stories, then we can live in the present fully, without allowing the past and the “people of the past” to keep dragging us back there.
When we give too much power to the memories, the people who have created those memories to entrap us, to keep us there with them forever, then we stay there all our life. Pain and suffering live mostly in the past, it follows us in the present, as time is not linear, time is happening all at once, past is present is future. So, the taker friend, the abuser partner/husband/relation, or the enslaver boss, the narcissist family member still has a lot of power over us, what we really call the past, is happening in a different timelines – all at once.
Life can be very confusing, because events tend to happen all at once, confusion occur in life, because as we are inter-dimensional beings, we are living in many parallel timelines at the same time. We may switch from one to another, to another, to another. Timelines are always open, so if something triggers us we go back to our childhood timeline, where the trauma occurred and we stay there as long as we need to, sometimes we get stuck in timelines.
So, when the enslaver boss makes us feel bad, we shift to a timeline that we were enslaved in the past. When the abuser partner/husband talks condescendingly to us, we go back to the time when we lost our voice, our powers, possibly in a timeline where we were persecuted and killed (past life), or it could be we’re reliving the pain and traumas of our ancestors, energy gets passed on, if no one clears the traumatic emotional burdens, then it gets carried on as debt to all who comes in the bloodline.
A lot is happening all the time with us. We may get stuck for a very long time in a timeline. Because, the traumas are too big and we need a lot of time to process the wisdom, learn the lessons and heal the mind, body, heart, emotions and soul.
Think about your own triggers. What are they? is there someone in your life that you cannot stand, no matter if they are far or close by? think about past life karma with this entity. If a lesson persists with someone, it’s from the past and if it doesn’t go away, it means a few lifetimes were spent in pain and suffering with this entity.
So, the past holds all the answers, the horrible person you cannot seem to get rid of, the takers, abusers, those filled pain and suffering, you will find all the wisdom, all the answers in the past. The past has a way to control us, it will have people in in that will not allow you to move on as they want to hold you back there with them.
When you have mastered to master time, timelines, the past, the future as one timeline, then you will have mastered life and its secrets. Life is magical. Life is magic, for those who are awake to see.
To heal the past find blogs in my archives that may help.
Wish you a magical life!
Ah the mind! what a minefield! How many people have control over their mind contents? thoughts? actions? the mind is a powerful powerhouse, an infinite hard drive, filled with super powers, as well a chaos and confusion.
If we come to believe everything the mind tells us, we have given it too much power. When we change the way we see things and the world changes, its people changes. Taming the mind is a powerful endeavour, that can be done after some practice.
The mind is a great saboteur, it sabotages us regularly, making us think things that are crazy, if we believe those crazy constructions of the mind, then it’s controlling us. Become in control of this saboteur, take control of the mind, the mind will make us think all kinds of things, to keep us controlled.
These could have been implanted inside us, or it could be complete fabrication. When we become in control of the mind, it cannot control us anymore, it cannot sabotage us anymore.
Telling the mind that it’s not in control anymore, that it cannot project lies onto us for us to believe, it then becomes tamed, a wild beast becomes totally tamed and under control. An undisciplined mind brings chaos and disorder. Controlling our thoughts, programming the mind with new programs, that we have installed into our system, is the best thing we can do.
If other programs, we haven’t agreed to, were installed, then of course our programs run the way it was programmed, by whomever it was programmed. But, when we take full control of our mind, delete horrific programs, viruses, implants, then it will respond to our own programs.
Self sabotage is when the mind does what it wants, without it being controlled by the person’s will. These programs run chaotic programs, it may have been running with errors, in our ancestors, we accepted it as it was passed on, but if we remove old defective programs and download new ones, healthy, updated, upgraded, we install anti viruses, firewalls, VPNs so only those whom we want to connect with, can connect with us.
We become in control of the mind, it cannot control us anymore. If others have downloaded programs in your hard drive, you agreed or did not object, then it was installed -removing those old programs is a must. Destructive programs running alongside the new programs, cause crashes, freezes and disorder.
Remember to reboot, scan the system often for worms, trojans, viruses or evil programs. These of course are people whom you do not want in your life, who have been somehow implanted – remove them by upgrading your system. Unwanted horror must be removed.
Clean your system, reboot or change the hard drive if you need to, to get rid of unwanted beasts, if necessary.
All the child wants is love, love and more love. Is this kind of love attainable on this earth? from earthly mothers? in this day and age, it seems humans do not know how to love. Love is equated with possession, abuse, control and all kinds of possessiveness that is being justified as love by everyone involved in these relationships.
A mother who controls her child to the extent of not allowing the child to be herself, himself, may justify it as love and discipline.
Our earthly values taught us that jealousy in a relationship means love and part of romance. That someone who loves us should be jealous and possessive.
These values also taught us that possessiveness means love – the more someone loves us, the more possessive they can become and it’s acceptable for a man or woman to be possessive, own their prize of “love”. Love has been misnamed, love doesn’t hurt, love heals, frees the spirit, allows total freedom to the spirit, love does not possess, but fear does.
When we are a child, we look to our parents for our own model to mould our own life. If our parents were not very balanced, then we become unbalanced too. When in the womb, how did our mother feel? were they happy of our arrival? of our existence? of us adding to their beautiful world or adding to their misery?
When we were in the womb, what seed was planted? seed of love or fear? this will reflect our life onwards. If our life is good, we attract good men/women/partners/friendships, then they have done a good job of loving us, honouring us, teaching us strong boundaries, setting us free to learn, make mistakes, choose our own life and how to live it. If not, the likelihood is that, we continue to make bad choices which take us back to destruction/fear/pain and suffering.
The good news is, whatever our life is right now, know that from now, this point on – we can make the change, if we are devoted to our own cause – self love, self honour, self worth, self mastery. This can change everything, honouring the self gives us everything we need, once we start to honour the self, we can go back to the past and heal it.
Once we start to honour the self, we will see that the past holds all of the secrets, a lot of it when we were not even aware of ourselves, i.e, when we were in the womb, or age between 0-7 years, that’s when the foundation were set for us. If we had a bad childhood, bad start, we can change it for us in the present. Heal the childhood, give ourself space to feel the grief, the pain or failure of our parents/family members, know that they had a lot of traumas too, which goes back generations to ancestors of the past.
The traumas and pain we feel is not something we feel alone. All of our ancestors feel the same, the energy gets passed from generation to generation in our DNA and bloodline, nothing ever goes away, until it is acknowledged and healed. In acknowledging our pain, we must also acknowledge the pain of our ancestors. Constellation healing, family placement healing is a good way of giving ancestors a platform to heal and be heard.
Acknowledging ancestors pain is a powerful way of healing our pain and suffering, the greater our pain, the more destructive our life, the more pain that is stored in the ancestors’ DNA, subconscious minds, which must be healed. It can be complex to deal with family/ancestors’ healing, as when you begin, the thread keeps on unravelling which can seem infinite in nature, as ancestral lineage can go back to millenia and if we take each person has their mother and father and grandparents, great-grandparents and so on, their pain and suffering, can go on for what seems to be forever.
But, if we want to deal with our own healing, we have to deal with the pain and suffering of the ancestors, we are linked, the tree of life, has roots, the trunk, branches and fruits. Which means we are part of a tree, if parts of the tree is sick, then we can’t be well. The tree as a whole needs to be looked at for us to be healed as part of the tree. If there is cancer in a part of the tree, it will catch up to the rest at some point.
In every generation there is a healer, but it depends if the healer can respond to the challenge and do the job, if the job is not done in that lifetime, then the task goes to the next generation, to the next healer, who again, if they do not rise to the healing challenge, then the task gets passed on and on and on and the healing demands more energy and becomes a bigger task.
Everyone must take responsibility of healing and dealing with their own pain and suffering. If they don’t then the healer becomes the one who bears the burden of the whole ancestral lineage, this can become and impossible task to achieve for one person. it is better to have more than one healer in a lineage of ancestors. This way the work is shared and the family heals fast. When we acknowledge the ancestors suffering, we give it space to heal, feeling the feelings of our ancestors, releasing them from their binds, karma is liberating to the souls of the past, present and future.
The inner child heals completely when it feels safe, protected, loved and honoured. This can only come when the adult loves their inner child, that is the biggest love and healing that will ever take place for the child. Self love is the greatest love and when the child accepts divine healing from the source, in the knowledge that humans are not perfect, divine is whole and only divine spirit can heal the child to wholeness and be the mother, father that the child has always needed, wanted and craved for.
When the child understand its own journey in this humanly existence, it heals completely. The inner child goes through a lot of trauma in its existence, in the womb, outside of the womb, growing up in an alien world, feeling different, unloved, lost, separation with itself, with others and then coming back to itself.
The finding the self part is very exciting, most of our life we think we are our parents, our friends, others on telly, we take parts of others and mimic to make believe we are who we aren’t. Then, when we become empowered, we remove all those fake layers and reveal ourself to ourself first and then the world.
We aren’t our mother, our father, brother, sister, friend/s, people on telly, we are totally unique, one of a kind, someone that is limitless, we exist at the same time we don’t exist, we are love, the sum of all that’s happened, the lessons, our ancestors, the sky, the elements, the earth, the water, fire, wood, trees, birds, butterflies, flowers, the star, planets, our art, we are and we aren’t all of these at the same time. No one can define who we are, as we are limitless beings of unlimited powers.
healing the inner child takes a long time, commitment and love to free ourselves from pain and suffering, this is total enlightenment and can be achieved on this plane. We can be free of pain and suffering, we can heal all of our pain and emotional suffering, our body, mind and spirit – minus the lessons of karma we have elected to learn in this lifetime.
Clearing karma is a must to reach freedom from pain and suffering. Total freedom of the soul is achievable, through hard work, patience and a lot of clearing work. The healing begins when the soul says, I want to be free, the healing begins and the soul becomes free in its own time.
If we give too much importance to others and how they treat us, how we are a victim of circumstances, a victim of others, then we will always be a victim of others.
What will it take for us to take our own life into our own hands? our happiness into our own hands? What will take to take back ALL our powers? to realise that we have always been enough, that others do not need to validate us, our happiness now – do not lie in others’ hands, actions or inactions.
If you have felt neglected, abandoned at some point in your life, you were being reminded that YOU have neglected and abandoned your own self. There is no greater thing than self love, it is complete love, when you feel the self love, you will feel the immense power you have, then it will not matter if you didn’t have a good life so far, if it was filled with pain and suffering, if your childhood was a really bad one, if you didn’t feel loved, or were abused by someone whom you trusted, if you weren’t protected by your parents, if your life was upside down.
What matters is that when we love ourself to the point of saying, ” I will not tolerate anyone, anything that abuses me, disrespects me, who does not honour me as much as I do, I will remove anyone from my life, if I don’t feel the level of honour and respect I have for myself” – and then follow up, give yourself that honour, that love, that respect that you have always wanted, waited for, once you have that for yourself, your energy will change and you will become ruthless in the way that you allow people to deal with you.
Once we begin to honour ourself, the world changes, the world aligns to bring more of the same vibration that we have been aligning with, all one-sided relations fall away, takers are dissolved, evil monsters cannot connect with us anymore, we become so elevated, that our energy repels those who do not align with us, friendships break, karmic relationships fall away, karma is cleared, pain and suffering dissolve, we see the truth about everything, we become very good at gaging situations and people.
It is important that we heal our wounds of the past and in childhood, so we have a good life. Healing our past will bring up a lot of traumas, related to our childhood, our upbringing, particularly when we were in the womb and when we were between the ages of 0-7 years of age. These remain in our subconscious all our lives, it is these experiences that mould our adulthood and our experiences. We keep on reliving our childhood experiences all our life.
If our childhood was filled with trauma and dysfunction, then our adult life mirrors that, that’s why people who have an abusive childhood have an abusive adulthood. We relive our childhood experiences over and over and over again, until we reveal to ourself that we need to get our of this cycle and take responsibility for our actions in the present.
It’s not our fault what happened in the past, particularly when we were children, but when we are adult, we must take responsibility for our life, our happiness and all of our decisions, staying stuck in the past, blaming others for our failure is not taking responsibility for our own life.
Taking responsibility means taking our powers back, stop blaming the past (and people in it) for our failures, heal ourselves and move on from a painful past to a beautiful present, a lot of work is needed for this, but it is possible to have a beautiful life filled with love once we take responsibility of our own life, wellbeing and happiness.
There are many ways to heal the self, to reach the point of self love, forgiveness, unconditional love and compassion for those who have harmed us. By seeing them as beings who had too much pain, who did not know how to live life, how to make their own life better, how to love others, their way of showing love was to control, enslave, possess what they felt was theirs, they did not know freedom, but have always been caged, how to take responsibility for their own happiness and wellbeing, by having strong boundaries, by saying no, by standing up for themself and by honouring themself.
Those who control and enslave others into relationships of enslavement are not happy for themself, being themself, they will pass on their pain and suffering to others through abuse, psychological, spiritual, emotional, physical, psychic/mental abuse and control. That’s all they know and are used to. They have been doing this forever and they are not able to change. These people lose a lot because they do have a lot of loving people in their lives, but because of their enslavement of those around them, they end up alone and rejected.
No one wants those who control, enslave, abuse others, so – they tend to end up totally alone and their cycle of abuse, resentment, hatred continue for those beings. They don’t want to break the cycle and habits they have become so accustomed to. After all, owning other people’s powers is such a boost of power for the self isn’t it? they don’t want to do the hard work of looking at their own source of pain and suffering, to unveil the truth about their ways and start the healing, so, we have to move on, without them, to make sure that we are healthy, happy, heal in a safe place without those who control, manipulate, harm and abuse.
Once we reach that level of self love, we have taken responsibility of our own happiness.
May those who are lost find their way.
What is Karma? What are Karmic Relationships? Why Karmic relationships? Who are Karmic family members, Karmic soul ties? Why do we need these in our life? What do we do with the karmic ties? How do we end these relationships? Should we end these relationships? Can we end Karmic relationships? How do we come out of Karmic ties?
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Karma, the chains that bind!
There a lot of questions when it comes to Karmic relationships. I may have to write several pieces regarding this topic. So, first question, what is Karma? Karma means good moral actions. With Karma, it is the intention behind the actions that are most important.
So, why do we have certain lessons with Karma? I.e do we choose those people who hurt us or do we meet them by accident and they bring upon us the pain and misery?
To understand Karma, we have to go back to our past. Karma can go back lifetimes, there are also karma that we accrue in this lifetime, so this is a continuous loop of actions and intentions that continue to accumulate in our bank of karma.
We elect to choose our lessons, the major ones that change our lives, we choose them. Do we choose the murderer, rapist, perpetrator to come into our lives? Some lessons we do, some we don’t. In the past, with civilisations falling and us being part of a lot of deceptions, some lessons we got stuck with.
The most horrible ones, like when we were conquered, enslaved, souls were taken into captivity, these were not our choices, but it was a big deception that took place. This continued for a long time, lifetimes after lifetimes, we didn’t manage to come out of the big deception which led to our own downfall.
A lot of those who brought deception onto us, still do, are still bringing a lot of pain, suffering, this will continue until we break the bind of karma. So, does it mean if we suffer, are taken into slavery, captive of others, that we have bad karma?
No, it means we were deceived by dark forces, we were taken into slavery, captivity, because we were too trusting. Many nations were conquered, people taken into slavery, hard labour, people were raped, harmed, killed, abused. This is still carrying on right now.
If you have a bad life, this is due to the fact that many of us were taken captive, so, we continue to be taken captive in different ways, may be a bad husband, abusive family member/s, neglectful mother/father. The souls come back to relive the same lessons, until the bind is broken by a party.
We also choose certain lessons, because we want to learn and become stronger. So, we choose certain people and lessons, because we want to clear the slate with them. We go through bad stuff with them, which is purely karmic, these are not loving relationships, this is where we learn through pain and suffering and when the lessons are learnt they leave our lives.
These are purely karmic relationships. They don’t bring love, they bring pain and suffering and through these we learn big soul lessons. Karmic relationships are not life-long relationships – but they can be, if lessons are not learnt, they remain in our lives, for as long as needed, until the soul learns to respect, honour and love itself. That’s when Karma is cleared.
Karma is cleared when a soul comes onto the path of self love and loving others. Karma is a big loop of endless outstanding lessons, that come together or one after another, because it waits to be cleared. The soul elects for the timing of these lessons. The most major ones teach us the arts of darkness – to align with our own dark side, it also teaches us to accept darkness as a way to balance ourselves.
Karmic relationships exit our life once the lessons are learnt. They aren’t here to come back or remain after the lessons are learnt. The chain is broken, the souls are freed, with very, very difficult karmic relationships, where there is a lot of abuse, death, trauma, the soul waits to free itself from this extreme karma.
Karma could have been accrued from lifetimes of enslavement by dark souls of our light bodies. When major civilisations fell in the past, dark forces took control of people who were of light origin. This is still taking place right now, so, the higher the soul mission, the greater the fall. As time is not linear, everything is still happening right this moment, the past is also the present and the future, that means civilisations are still falling right now, people are dying, being killed, murdered as history repeats itself, until we say NO! and do the inner work.
So, the enslaver who enslaved a lot of people has not gone away, s/he has transformed into the evil boss, husband/partner, family member or friend, who is going to take what they took a long time ago, unless these lessons are dissolved. The abuser does not go away, it transforms into a different form.
Everyone who meets us and play a major part in our lives, we have met in the past, in past lifetimes. The evil monster comes back to cross path with us, one way or another, nothing goes away by itself, unless we take our life in control totally and decide that it’s time to remove evil, transform our lives into what we want, unless we take full control and face our demons who took our powers away.
Karmic relations come to take our powers away, it is all about losing everything to them, so that we can take back our powers, become more powerful when we take our powers back from them. This can take many lifetimes, if you decide enough is enough with them, then the karma will be cleared in this lifetime.
Once karma is cleared, the person goes away for good, the lesson doesn’t have to be repeated again. Long term loving relationships are not karmic. They are what the soul chooses to heal the pain of karmic relationships. So, there may be a strange balance of love and pain in your life. The karma brings painful lessons and a loving relationship brings the healing, so the soul is able to cope.
To heal karmic relationships, we must not only forgive the people who harmed us, but also stand up to them, have strong boundaries, teach them to respect us, face our fears for them or the chain keeps on binding us stronger, for longer. Once we face our fears with these beings who are karmic, we release them once and for all. They could go back lifetimes when we fell in magical times, they took our powers away, enslaved our souls and in this lifetime, we take our powers back from them, this is when we stand up to them, to the pain and horror they have caused us and clear the slate forever.
We do not come back to have another relationship with karmic relations. This is it, it’s over once we clear the slate with them and thank goddess for that, I bet you don’t ever want to see their face ever again.